Chris, Finding out that you have been cheated on is hurtful beyond words. There are no words to describe how I truly feel except to say that I am devastated, sick, disgusted, and truly my heart is broken. I know how you are and you must give me my space to get through this. I have to figure out how to handle this. The thought of seeing you this weekend hurts way too much. I can not do it. One of us will have to leave for the weekend. Please let me know if you?re willing to stay somewhere this weekend and if not, I will leave before you get here on Friday. The kids start school Monday morning so I will return to help get them ready.