well..im a little out of the ordinary. Ive never really been in a formal relationship before in my life. Ive been asked out before but I never felf I could accept. When asked what the big question is who do you really like? I always say that I love everyone...which i think is true.
Everywhere i go i am the center of attention. And especially when im around a group of girls i love making them laugh by acting stupid and saying funny dumb things. But I cant tell who it is that I really like...
Ive become so absorbed in getting the attention of everyone around me that I dont know who it is that I really like....
Is there any way that I can tell?
Is there anything wrong with what i do, how can i fix it?
Im a junior and its been like this since i started high school what do i do?
Well there's nothing wrong about wanting to have everybody like you. But, when you like someone, you'll know. It took me forever to like someone (I was going slightly crazy, thinking I was asexual or something....) but then I finally did and believe me, you will notice the difference between just liking everyone and liking that "special someone".
I'd say try to get closer to the few that you are most interested in "wanting them to like you more", and maybe you'll find something there. =)
"Son, if you really want something in this life, you have to work for it. Now quiet! They're about to announce the lottery numbers." - Homer Simpson
I apprerciate the input thanks alot i ll give it a shot...but if anyone else can help too that would be awesome!
BTW and its not like I dont like anyone its just that I have a horrible tendency to flirt with every girl i talk to..what do i do about that??
Please everyone..any more advice you leave will be helpful, no matter waht it is!!!!
I know exactly what you mean...but I am a girl so I flirt with ALOT of guys...even if I have a bf..
But, if you feel much more attached to someone or catch yourself watching one special person and get bugged if someone is getting too close and flirty with them, then you know that you like them..or that's how I was...
About the whole Flirty stuff, I still flirt even if I'm getting serious with someone, maybe cause I'm always around Flirty people, but well...you shouldn't worry too much about that..I mean, flirting is okay is you know your limits (Am I making sense?)
If you have more questions, feel free to contact me...my aim and yahoo messenger is in my public profile and here's my email if you wanna track me down there okk? [email protected]
Take Care and Good Luck, I'll always be here if you wanna talk more on the subject okk?
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hey man. i too am a man (we are genetically superior). i know what you mean. sometimes it just takes finding one girl who laughs especially hard when you make a joke and asking if she wants to hang out just the two of you... if it doesnt work whatever, but if it does... your all figured out. anytime man.
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hey man, what's with the men are genetically superior stuff? gosh, what's up with you. haha jk..i'm so used to that..I think I get along with guys too well...the only crew I love to hang out with is a " strictly GUYS ONLY" crew...
Don't ask, I don't know why I'm considered a guy, but ok...it's all good...guys have more to give! haha, many girls round here can cause wayyy to much drama...gotta get away from them. LOL!
But honestly, I agree with pmac13, look around for the girl that pays most attention to you that means that she's got something going on for you and maybe you're unintentionally trying to get her attention too...unless she's like me and loves the company of guys no matter what's going on, but even if that's the case...she'll give you hints...LOOK FOR THE HINTS, MISTER...
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I never really thought of it that way...I never noticed if there was anyone who really acted like that. It seems like people think of me a a likeable person but Im just a friend that is there tht can never be anything more
I know that sounds dramatic, but really my life is full of drama, intentional and unintentional, I dont know if that is a good thing or a bad thing, its kinda like a tv show or a chick movie...ok kinda creepy now but whatev
btw im cool with eveveryone being equal...sort of...i know alot of girls that are better than me at a lot of things. I played one on one soccer w/ one of my friends and i barely got 3 points on her.. she got ten on me...again pretty embarassing but whatev
I meant to ask how the !@#$ am I supposed to notice if someone is paing more attention to me than another person when it seems like everyone acts the same?
BM
How come so many people, including the majority of people I know, feel as if they're not potential daters? Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder...and believe me, EVERYONE is lovable..sure, some people can be more easy to talk to, but everyone will find their love one day...
Chilidavison, if you look real closely, you'll see what we mean by "a differently behaving" person. is there someone that loves to be around you every second in life...or loves to be near you no matter what life is throwing at you? Surely, there is someone who will look for you when they need a real friend...I'm sure that there is someone you hang out with more frequently than others...
If not, then maybe you just haven't found that person yet...just wait and see..you'll find them veryy soon, I promise you if you don't find them, they will find you. Believe in fate. ^_^
If you still have questions, just contact me and I'll talk to you more then okk? Take care and Good luck with everything.
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Hey...its not that i dont think of myself as a potential dater ive been in relationshis before they just didnt feel right...plus i can never decide who i like that really likes me...is it right to wait for someone you like to like you?
I'm sorry if I misworded something..teehee, I didn't mean it like that...
But if you really like someone and you feel that they're worth you're stay, then you can wait for them until you feel as if you want to move on...Am I making sense?
And if you're not able to decide on who you like and who you don't like, then it's prolly because you haven't found that right person yet...
If you are patient enough though, I'm sure you'll find the person that truly makes your heart beat real soon.
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haha...man u are unusual. just kidding. well i've become the center of attention in my class as well. everyone looks to me to make there day brighter. but u should always be able to tell who u like. i know by: who i talk to the most, who i LOVE being around, and who makes me feel like i'm an important person in her life. there are plenty of other things. like who's the only person that u lose ur train of thought for when they are around? who can make u nervous? i mean i love everyone too, but there's always one person who u looooooooong to see every day. but i've found myself in ur position before. sometimes...u simply can't like someone. don't feel left out or anything. hope i helped!
Perry
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