i've got a question that maybe someone can help me with. alright, a girl wasn't necessarily "leading me on", but she began to stand out to me more than before:rolleyes:. so then i came up with this idea of asking her out on Valentine's Day. i had 3 people making deliveries for me throughout the day, and the last person would deliver a card with my name in it and maybe asking her to meet me somewhere that night....so i asked her best friend to help me out....she told me i wuz wasting my time.....i said f***:mad: it and tried to move on.....now it turns out that the girl i like likes some other guy who treats her like crap. it gets better. she KNOWS he treats her like crap, yet she still can't get over him....soooo i'm thinking about sticking with the original plan, but instead of asking her out i'll just tell her how she deserves better.....so someone tell me: am i still wasting my time?:(