ok so I'm gonna be lame...here it goes
I like this guy I'm friends with and I'm pretty sure he knows I like him. Ever since he found out he's been hanging around me more but won't make a move. What should I do?
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If he knows that you like him, and he made the effort to hang around you more often, then I'm assuming that he has feelings for you. But maybe he isn't making a move because he's waiting for [I]you to make a move. I was friends with this guy for a while and we started off writing handwritten letters to each other, which I admit are quite time-consuming but totally worth it. We were definitely flirting with each other, but he probably didn't make a move because he didn't know if I was ready for a relationship. So, I made the first move by telling him flat out and honestly (in one of our letters, of course) that I really liked him, and now we've been going out for almost three months. He did the asking out part, but if I hadn't told him that I really liked him, it might have taken us longer to finally start going out. So, my advice is that you should make the first move and see what happens. :)
thanks that's good advice
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you're welcome!
I did the same thing grizzle did. I just came out and told him I liked him. It took me forever to do beacause i was so scared but you kinda just have to get some balls and put yourself out there. and he really liked the fact that he made the first move. He asked me out the next day :]
just try it!
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its always a tricky situation cuz no one ever wants to get hurt, but you just kinda gotta do what Mexicana said.
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musiclife92291;70524 wrote:ok so I'm gonna be lame...here it goes
I like this guy I'm friends with and I'm pretty sure he knows I like him. Ever since he found out he's been hanging around me more but won't make a move. What should I do?
If you think he likes you ask him. Be direct. If he says yes, I guess it is okay, if not than maybe your relationship with him might be shattered or somewhat akward. I know I can never have a relationship with any of the guy friends, if I end up having a relationship, it will not be the same anymore.:confused:
Yeah turns out he likes the other girl. But this other guy has appeared and confused me. I think I'm just gonna scrap everything for awhile. Thanks to everyone for their advice though! :)
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aww..im sorry, i was actually kinda sad when i read that. =\
its okay though, you still had the courage to talk about so its more power to ya. after all, if youd never asked then youd have that uncertainty wouldve been hanging over you all this time.
ive learned through inaction and uncertainty that doing nothing makes your life suck, its easier to find out so you can know and progress from there.
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very deep. good advice though
heyy everyone can start over and prom's in a few months so who knows
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see, thats good news, but if your kind've a stupid dude like me, you cant do much with that.
LOL =P
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