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Don't know what to do...

Ok, so I have this dilema. I like one guy and another guy likes me. The guy that I like is currently dating right now, but we always talk on aim and he seems to flirt with me some when I see him working (this was before he got in a relationship.) I still like him and really haven't given up the hope that he might ask me out sometime or another.

The other guy took me to homecoming as sort of a friend I guess. I don't really know him at all and he's too shy to talk to any girl that he likes. I mean during marching band my colorguard friend tried to help me get some convos going so he could jump in (about horses and other subjects I really like) anytime, but no, totally shy. Yet, he wants to ask me to different places with friends. The only bad side is that I'm not into him like a bf & gf sorta relationship. Any suggestions?

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yeah, i got a couple of suggestions. first, chances are the guy you like won't ask you out but don't get bummed you'll find someone else. also, i know how it goes to like someone who doesn't feel the same (i think most of us do) and the way you feel might seem really important but it will lessen and eventualy will pass. second, don't act like you like the guy who likes you if you don't. you should probably tell him so he doesn't go to alot of effort to ask you out only to find out you don't like him.

all in all, it's just another brick in the wall...

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Sometimes when we really like someone that someone doesn't like you. But you know it's a blessing in disguise somehow.

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Yeah, do not lead this other kid on. If you are not interested in him this way, don't let him think you like him. It's not fair to either of you.

Now for this unavailable guy, he's off-limits that is it.(You should note, however, that I'm rather biased on this issue; I've had to watch my friend pine for such guys, and I didn't like how it affected her.)

Hope this helps, Greenlover17

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