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*advice, please*

Ok, so i like this guy, and i was pretty sure he liked me too, just from how he acted around me. But after a while it just didn't seem the same. i still like him, but i'm not getting as strong a feeling that he likes me as i was before even though he does flirt with me.

Then i realized that he flirts a LOT with a few other girls, which just made me jealous of them, even though i don't think it's serious. we never talked a whole lot to begin with, and he was always friends with these girls.

so now i don't know what's going on. But really, it was him who initiated the flirting, which was what attracted me to him in the first place. so i'm definitely not just imagining this b/c i'm desperate or something.

Also, i realized that i flirt with other guys, too, sort of without realizing it. And i'm not particularly interested in them either, if i really think about it. i don't think that has anything to do with the previous issue, but i'm wondering do guys get jealous of that too??

sorry if this is confusing for you. just think how it is for me! :confused:
so any advice would be great, if anyone has ideas on how to handle this, maybe?

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well, if you're sure he at least used to have feelings for you, you should ask him what's going on. nobody knows better about his thoughts than him.
say something like, "hey, a while ago i got the feeling you liked me. was i right?"
hm, it's not as easy as it sounds, but it's worth a try.

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welllllll..........it's okay, I'm a crazy flirt too and yeah, it gets confusing... but:
He is a flirt and you are a flirt so why (sorry if this sounds callous) do you think that he likes you if he just flirts with a lot of girls?
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i wouldn't really say that i'm a flirt...I guess it did sort of sound like that, though.

Why did i think he liked me? Um, he flirted repeatedly and didn't seem as confident as a casual flirter might. A little unsure of himself, i guess. it was more obvious to me then, because it mostly tapered off after a while. But more recently, he told me over and over about how he's switching into another one of my classes, which the main other girls he flirts with are NOT in. and he seemed rather excited about it, too.

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Well, there could be any number of explanations for that kind of behavior. I agree with FlittingShadow, though. Your best bet is to talk to him about it, even if that seems awkward. You'll never know until you talk to him!

I hope everything works out for you. I've been in similar situations before. It all makes so much more sense when you just ask =)

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yeah, that would definitely be awkward.
but i'll consider it, b/c i really don't know what else to do.

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Unfortunately, there's not much else you can do, unless you decide he's not worth it =/ The way I see things is, if it's meant to be, it'll happen no matter what. So, if you really like this guy, and he likes you too, it'll all work out eventually.

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