Ok. So the dating scene has been pretty confusing lately. I liked this guy last month and I thought that he liked me too(bob). Day to day, it seemed like his feelings changed. He never made a move or anything, so I moved on. Now I have a boyfriend(schmo) that I met during our school musical. Recently, I was at this party with my boyfriend and I learned that bob was mad at me. I called him after the party and talked to him for about 2 hours. He told me that he really liked me and was jealous that I had a boyfriend. I told bob that he should've told me how he felt. The guy that I go to church with from my last post still likes me too. Bob just is moody a lot and I need a boyfriend that can keep me in a good mood and schmo is always there to make me laugh. I just can't win. Both of the boys are really good friends and I don't want to lose either one. I am sticking with schmo and he will just have to accept that I will still be very close friends with bob even though I kno that he has feelings for me. Schmo will just have to trust me. Everything is just weird right now. It always seems that I go through a huge break between boyfriends. When one guys starts to like me, three more show up that like me too. I hate that! They don't want you until you are already with someone!!!!!
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Wow, sounds like you're past love triangles and into squares.
Honestly I'm not sure what to tell you except that you have to think about who makes you happy and who you want to be with.
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well at least you have guys to have problems about. me i am alone, but with you, you need to tell your boyfriend that he can trust you to be close friends with bob. it also depends on your feelings for bob . if you do have feelings for bob then you need to be careful about being friends with him.
I can also tell you that your young...things like this will happen a lot. At this stage in the game we teenagers are too fickle in our lives to truely know what we want, which is what dating is for. Maybe something that could work for you is not being in a exclusive relaionship until you know exactly what you want adn who you want. Dating more than one person is fine...as long as the otehr person agrees. And to me, dating around seems like something that would help you figure out what you want.
There is no future. There is no past. There's only us, there's only this. Forget regret or life is your to miss. No other road, no other way. No Day But Today!!!
I think this is normal. I remember we were talking about how guy friend will never look at girls as "Just Friends" during class. And the girls came to a conclusion that guy have feelings for her most of the time, unless they have a girl friend.
About your situation, I think you should stick to Schmo since he's nice and you guys are dating. I think you should tell Bob that you just want to be friends, and if he can't stand it, that would be his problem--and maybe he's too greedy and might not be the person you'll be happy w/ afterall, because if he really likes you, he should be more concern about your happiness rather than his.
I think you should stick to one person, otherwise you won't going to get the feelings that you want in return.
Ok. Now I feel horrible. My bf and a group of friends were gonna go see Blades of Glory with me yesterday. My bf's dad wouldn't let him go, so I went with the group of guys that were gonna go with us. We got to the theater just in time to find out that the tickets were sold out. After a while of thinking, we decided to go to this guys house and just pop in a movie. Now I am a big flirt and I have liked this guy since freshman year. We sat next to each other during the movie and he has back problems, so he asked me for a back rub. I gave him a massage and we hugged before I left. I feel like the worst girlfriend ever. I called my bf when I got home and he was at a friend's house. He was really distracted to I told him that I would just talk to him later. Then this other guy from school that is not bob or the guy from church, called me and asked if I wanted to hang out today because his parents were goin out of town and he wasn't allowed to leave the house. I then proceeded to ask him who else would be there. He told me that no one else would be there. I called him today and told him that I wouldn't be coming. I told my bf about that guys phone call, and he didn't seem to care. He is just so trusting. I feel terrible! I am a free spirit, but I don't want to break up with my bf. He likes me a lot, and don't get me wrong. I like him too. It's just that I am a flirt, and I just can't help it. THis is high school. There are so many people out there.
It really sounds like you need to figure your self out and be able to settle before you truely have a relationship.
There is no future. There is no past. There's only us, there's only this. Forget regret or life is your to miss. No other road, no other way. No Day But Today!!!
Yea....I am just really confused.
We're still growing, so being confused is all right. You're allowed to change with the way you view situations and people, and especially your feelings. Just always keep in mind what's going to be best for your feelings.
I wish I could say it'll be the last time somthing like this will happen, but it's not, and it sucks. But it'll get better.
It all turns out well in the end. If all is not well, it's not the end.
All of this would be a lot easier if my bf's dad would let him out of the house sometimes. This is kinda embarrasing, but he's a freshman. I have to drive everywhere, he goes to sleep at 9:30, and he is kinda immature sometimes. I do like him though, don't get me wrong. Jus sometimes I get lonely and there are plenty of other guys out there. I have been on the phone with him and his dad has yelled at him to get off the phone and go to bed. Today, I went with two other guys to the mall bc my bf didn't answer the phone. He called me when I was with them to see what I was doin. He heard the other guys' voices with me and asked who I was with. I told him the truth and he seemed kinda pissed. He said "I guess I'll let u back to ur fun at the mall". I tried to call him back the rest of the day and he won't answer his phone. I didn't really do anythin wrong. The guys were jus friends, but oh well. Lately I don't kno what to do to make him happy. Jus talkin about him makes me get a little depressed and my friends can tell that it bothers me. I jus don't kno : (
Boy toys- men who you do not consider yourself in a serious relationship with, yet are intimate.
excelent concept, discuss with your freshman (why date freshman?) that you need/want (I don't know) and open relationship. this gives you room to date other people, and have a hell of alot of fun.
besides high school "dating" have built in complications, that are too strenuous for AP students. hahaha
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