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guys *sigh*

so i met this guy over the summer about a year ago (let's call him joe) & i kinda liked him. We hung out again this summer & we were flirting and hanging out for a while. the last day we were together, he kissed me. about a week later, he was back in florida (i live in VA) & he called me & told me he had a girlfriend. the problem is, i still like him, but i'm really....confused now. any advice??

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now he's telling me he broke up with his girlfriend, but i don't know if i should trust him, plus i'm kinda going to homecoming with a really sweet guy...

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I don't know, I would have a hard time going out with a guy who didn't tell me he had a girlfriend until after he left. I mean hanging out is fine, but like flirting knowing that he was already in a relationship, and kissing you, then telling you later...it wouldn't sit well with me. If he had told me at the beginning that he had a girlfriend I might be better with it. Plus, you're both still young and you live far away. A long distance relationship is hard because there are all those physical things that you can't exactly do like hold hands or hug. They also require a lot of trust from both ends.

I would say take your chances with the sweet guy close to home. Of course that's just me...

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pianogirl2422 wrote:I don't know, I would have a hard time going out with a guy who didn't tell me he had a girlfriend until after he left. I mean hanging out is fine, but like flirting knowing that he was already in a relationship, and kissing you, then telling you later...it wouldn't sit well with me. If he had told me at the beginning that he had a girlfriend I might be better with it. Plus, you're both still young and you live far away. A long distance relationship is hard because there are all those physical things that you can't exactly do like hold hands or hug. They also require a lot of trust from both ends.

I would say take your chances with the sweet guy close to home. Of course that's just me...

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to start, i dig summer relationships. even tho the long distance is hard, myself and a few of my friends have been able to keep in touch with people like Joe Florida (haha, just made that up).
but if homeboy here "forgot " to mention his girlfriend, what do you think that says about him? you? her?
also, dont short-change this nice homecoming boy. give him a shot, you'll never know what coulda happened. ooooooohh, jk.

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he kissed you, he said he had a girlfriend, he said he broke up with his girlfriend?

all this happened just too fast.
I don't think you can trust this guy.
Be normal friends will be ok; but to be partner I don't think he's trustworthy.
Before you get hurt, it's better to let nature takes its course.
Must get to know a guy well before you start a relationship.

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do teh 3some

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doesnt sound like 'joe' is worth it.

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ok....
do not get worried about this at all. in fact, don't even deal with it! long distance relationships never work. my friend went through this and it was kind of weird to know that one of bff's bf was in another state....
anyways, unless you feel like your heart "desires" him, don't go for it.

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i say screw that guy. if hes not gonna be honest and up front with you in the first place then hes not even worth it cuz hes probably some scumbag. how honest a person is will tell you alot about them.

p.s. does the xc in xcfireball stand for cross country?

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daniipants;66831 wrote:doesnt sound like 'joe' is worth it.

Quoted for truth. Long distance relationships nearly never work.

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