I am 17 and have been dating this amazing guy for nearly four months now, but it has felt like I've known him my whole life. We're always together because he lives in my neighborhood, and we can tell each other anything. He is one of my best friends. But about two weeks ago he told me and my mom (same time, i didn't know first) that he may move completely across the country this summer. Not only would I be crushed, but i'm really upset because he didn't tell me when he found out over a month ago. what should i do?
~Lissie
He may move
January 8, 2006 - 15:30
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He may move
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I'm sorry that you're in this situation. About him not telling you, maybe he didn't know how to tell you. I know it sounds cliche, but it's a hard thing to tell someone, just like it's a hard thing to hear. As to being apart, I know it'll be hard, but it's not something that's likely to change. But you two will still be able to talk on the phone or online. And think, in a few years you two will be going to college. I know it seems like a long time, but it's not as far off as it seems. You two can choose to go to the same college or colleges near each other and can be with each other again. In the mean time, there's always holidays and summer vacation.
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I think that the most important thing you can do right now is talk with your boyfriend about what happened, even if you're mad at him.
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It could be that he didn't know how to tell you, or maybe he just knew of it as a vauge possibility- that he didn't want to get you concerned until there was a possibility that he might be going.
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I dont think you really can do much, if he HAS to go. Long distance relationships dont have a high chance of survival...
"To many people spend money on things they don't need, to impress people they don't like, with money they don't have."
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Make the most of what time you have and work out the rest of the stuff revolving around the long distance crap later. Live each day to it's fullest... and do everything pianogirl said to do like talking to him calmly and controlled which can be hard but try. best of luck to you. (and long distances work if your willing to make it work)
"I have a feeling I'm falling on rare occasions but most of the time I have my feet on the ground, I can't help it if the ground itself is falling."
I agree w/ Capt Canada...enjoy the time you two have left together before he has to leave. If you two really are as close as you say, then you should have no problem keeping in touch and making the whole long distance thing work. Best of luck!
PS: and don't be mad at him for not telling you right away, he probably feels just as awful as you do about the whole situation...it's a hard thing to tell someone that you're moving across the country