ok, so i have liked this guy for a loooooooong time and we dated last year but then he broke up with me bc he was having MAJOR issues. then at the end of the year, he told me that he still had feelings for me, and of course i never had gotten over him, so i was thrilled. me n him stayed really CLOSE friends based on the fact that we liked eachother and couldnt date. (dont ask, long story.) well then he told me that he only liked me sexually. he never tried to pressure me to do anything though. I was heartbroken. now, he apologized and i melted and now everythings back to where we were. Am i stupid or normal?:confused:
:rolleyes: Never say never or I just might do it!
--blondebomber110
"Listen, three eyes," he said, "Don't you try to outweird me. I get stranger things than you free with my breakfast cereal." -- Zaphod Beeblebrox
"Marvin, any ideas?"--Arthu
It is normal to still have feelings for an ex. Some things just take time, some things can have all the time in the world and still be there.
My suggestion for you is, since this guy admitted to only liking you sexually, forget him. I'm not saying don't be friends with him, that's fine, but as far as going out with him, I'm sure you can do better. You need somebody who likes you for who you are as a person, not for how your body looks. Just because he apolgised to you for what he said, does not mean that he still does not feel that way. I'd be weary of him.
With that said, people do change. He could be one of these people. I'm a believer in second chance, however it must be understood that these second chances aren't as good as the first. I become weary of the person and second guess them.
it could be his hormones are causing him to only think about you sexually over time he might get used to your looks more and find something of real substance to like about you
bananasortacos wrote:it could be his hormones are causing him to only think about you sexually over time he might get used to your looks more and find something of real substance to like about you
Hormones or not, respect is still an issue. While it is good that he respect her enough to tell her the truth, he needs to respect her more by liking her for who she is.
To quote a very insane woman from history.....
"I am the universe."
My solution to this is... Don't date. Dating only leads to unfulfilled promises and heart breaks.
I think like this (My religion helps set this into motion.... but I believe even a hethen can think this way)
I believe that God has the perfect person for you. He just keeps placing that person in front of you time and time again and you either notice or you don't, but God's going to continuly give you hints.
If something is MEANT to happen... It will happen.
If I am MEANT to become Governor of the Louisiana-Missippi-West Tennessee District of Key Club International, I will, regardless of who I am running against.
Am I saying to believe in Fate? No. I don't believe in Fate.
I believe in God's Will...
Matthew Hubbard
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really nice on the fate and gods will
MatthewHubbard wrote:My solution to this is... Don't date. Dating only leads to unfulfilled promises and heart breaks.
Actually this is what i had planned on doing. It just isn't worth it anymore. Especially where i live. Let's just say Aynor is NOT the greatest place for eyeing possiple spouses. lol... ugh... thanks for the advice!
:rolleyes: Never say never or I just might do it!
--blondebomber110
"Listen, three eyes," he said, "Don't you try to outweird me. I get stranger things than you free with my breakfast cereal." -- Zaphod Beeblebrox
"Marvin, any ideas?"--Arthu
blondebomber110 wrote:Actually this is what i had planned on doing. It just isn't worth it anymore. Especially where i live. Let's just say Aynor is NOT the greatest place for eyeing possiple spouses. lol... ugh... thanks for the advice!
Don't worry about possible spouses right now. That'll come later down the road. Right now just go with your feelings, and logic of course. If things end up in marriage, awesome! One of my aunt and uncles were High School sweethearts. My Mom and Dad both have friends who married their High School sweethearts. It is possible. However, your still young, your wants and needs are going to change over the years, trust me. I started dating my ex-girlfriend when I was 15, she broke up with me over the Summer of this past year, right before school started (we're going to the same school so it wasn't because of distance). I was heartbroken then. We dated for over 2 and a half years, I thought she was the one. Now I realize that it's the best thing that could of happened to me.
What I'm trying to say is, if somebody cares about you, and you care about them, then go for it. What happens down the road happens, good or bad.