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ritu's picture
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i agree that they do work out. as long as you BOTH are committed then of course why not right? im in one right now and we have been going out for about two years now and its been great he comes down at times but i can't even say its sumtimes....

but sometimes he thinks that i go behind his back and do other things that he doesn't want me doing and i always listen to him. now recently we got in a argument tho because he was pissed out that some guys at my school i caught staring at me and he turns around and tells me that i wear sexy nice looking cloths for guys so they can look at me and tells me that he doesn't trust me. i tell him right there and then that i listen to his every little thing but yet its never gona be enough for him and hang up . at this moment i am so pissed right. and five mintues later he calls and says "im sorry for being a a-hole" i didn't forgive him and he got mad and we both got off the phone . my question to you guys is should i forgive him? or leave since he doesn't trust me??? and he expects me to always trust him.

help porfavor !!!

~reenu~

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One of the most important things in a relationship, and especially in a long-distance one, is trust. If you and your guy don't have that, you don't have anything. You need to tell them that if he doesn't trust you and you two can't figure something out, you're going to break up. It also sounds like he's being a bit controlling, which isn't good either. Long-distance relationships can work if both people are committed to it, trust one another, and communicate well. However, it doesn't sound like yours is going to be one of them that lasts. I'm sorry, and I hope everything works out for the best.

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flagstones925;68757 wrote:One of the most important things in a relationship, and especially in a long-distance one, is trust. If you and your guy don't have that, you don't have anything. You need to tell them that if he doesn't trust you and you two can't figure something out, you're going to break up. It also sounds like he's being a bit controlling, which isn't good either. Long-distance relationships can work if both people are committed to it, trust one another, and communicate well. However, it doesn't sound like yours is going to be one of them that lasts. I'm sorry, and I hope everything works out for the best.

I completely agree. :)

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I don't know... I think long distance is rather difficult. In my experience anyway.
This is mainly because I've learned that sometimes you need the physical one-on-one with your partner, not just the emotional/mental (which obviously plays a big role in a relationship as well).

If there is a strong bond of communication then I'd say that's a good foundation (hah! that rhymed...).
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no. even if you live 2 hours away

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The distance isn't an issue if you truly like that person ALOT...I mean, me and my bf have a long-distance relationship because of certain family issues...and he lives only like 5 minutes away from me!! We serially can't talk or see each other at all except for like once a year basically and we don't even let the people around us find out about it...

LOL...that's really sad I know, but we're still fighting for our relationship...I mean, once you've found that one person that you can truly bond with and care about, you'll do all that it takes to stay with them....no matter how far apart you are...whether right next door to you or on the other side of the world...

Main thing in a relationship truly is trust and determination...of course there's love and communication!! LOL, Dr. Suess really does get to you. ^_^

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