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Yeah, you're in the friend zone. Sorry, but she's not available for you anymore... my apologies go out to you. But hey, at least you guys are still friends.

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ok Yeah atleast we are friends.

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Well, if I have any advice to offer on this it is to be bold. Dont abandon all hope. If anything, you never want to do that, until of course you have a certain and more fact-based explanation or truth.
Things might appear bleak, but dont abandon the idea.

But yeah, like chula said, flirting works really good, I suggest it.

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as dumb and cliche as it may sound... i'm with drummer. the friend zone indeed. i've been there man. you are lucky this other guy isn't one of your friends because he was with me and eventually it went to blows and we ended up getting into a big fight (physically). its good that she knows thgat you like her though. if she didnt, then she is really careless about hurting you because she doesn't know she is. i think you should have told her it was a date thing. maybe ask her if she could ever think of you as more than a friend...
what happened to me was me and my friend liked this girl. long story short we were all kinda drunk one night and they had sex. then they were going out and me and my guy friend ended up throwing down in his backyard. it was bad stuff.
... off topic but i would recommend asking her what she thinks about you. be straight with her and try not to get too depressed about it. it sucks but you'll bounce back.

~ In the end my friends we will all be together again
~ Clutching on to my hand
~ In a valley we'll stand
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Actually the ex is my friend. Or actually, he was. He kinda backstabbed me back in October (long story) by asking her out. After that, I tried to separate myself from him. He is alright and I'm not that mad at him anymore, but I am not that close to him anymore. And I guess that I'll try to flirt. But since she put me in the friends zone, wouldn't flirting be awkward? I mean, I have no problem with it, but how would I know if she was annoyed?

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flirting shouldnt be awkward, its harmless. and im sure that if she really didnt like it then youll be able to tell if shes flirting back or not through her responses.

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Ok, so I don't know what I should do for our little friendly outing. I am stuck between skating and the movies. What do you think is better? Also, if you pick skating, would ice skating work, or should I just stick to traditional skating? She loves to skate so that is why I'm thinking about that.

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Oh man. This is now the situation. I've never felt this sad before ever. She just told me that she wanted to hook back up with her ex... I really feel like crying or something. I know that isn't really mature but I just feel so sad. Apparently the ex's parents don't like her and told him not to date her again, but she told him that she liked him and he said he liked her. I guess that the reason she asked me if it was a date thing was because she didn't want to have mixed emotions between 2 people. God damn, why does it seem like everything is against me?

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Maybe this is the time to tell her how you feel. Or if you won't do that tell her you think she shouldn't get back together with him. You guys are friends. You should be able to talk about this stuff. One way or another you are going to have to tell her how you feel.

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aw man dude.. =(

im really sorry to hear that..i mean, im really genuinely saddened to hear that, because thats a situation i can VERY easily identify with.

i guess the best thing you can do is to just talk to her. find a good time where you to can be alone and just pour it out.

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