Alright, so i've been dating this guy for a little over 8 months, and we have a really strong relationship... before we started dating we were friends, and after, we got even closer. He's the sweetest thing and is always trying to make me happy. We never used to fight... but now it's a lot easier to get mad at him, and i know he's thinking the same thing about me. It also seems like he doesn't wanto to be with me as much - like he doesn't like me as much - anymore. We're still a lot stronger than most couples, but it bothers me a lot. I've talked to him about it and he says that it's just stress with work and school and family stuff... ok i understand that, but i don't know if that's all it is...
any suggestions?
It really could be. That or just restlessness caused by school almost being over. I'm not sure how you could fix the problem, though...
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I say its a lovers quarrel thing. In one of my forming relationships about 6 or 7months into we started fighting all the time, and just over little stuff too. It lasted for a bit but then war off and we got along a lot better afterwards. It ended up lasting about 9 months longer.
maybe you guys are spending to much time together. try doing more things with your friends. maybe that will take some tension off.
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From a personal relationship of 2 years and a whole month now...I think you should sit him down and really discuss things through...
I mean, when me and my boyfriend first started out, we were the closest too, but now it's just he's always busy with work since he is 3 years older than I am...and I'm busy with school work and college prep...so it does get hard..
But when things get hard..you really do have to try harder...if you can, see your quarrels as a test for strength in your relationship.
And about your question, yeah, it prolly is fatigue and stress...me and my boyfriend take it out on each other all the time...it's good for your health...but don't do it too much and tell him that too, it's bad for the health of your relationship. I hope I'm making sense...
Well, I hope all went well for you and is still soaring strongly!! ;)
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sorry to burst your bubble eagle of justice, but relationships are not about sex only...
sure it's okay to please them...but that doesn't mean that you need to sex them...it's takes much more than hours of hot sex to get to someone's heart and gain a long-living relationship that is worth-while...
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How else would you please them?
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i know sex is how to please them cause i do have a bf...but still, i think there's more to relationships than just sex...
i mean it takes time to bond and it takes trust to make sure that the relationship will work and be worthwhile...
sex can't do all this cause you can always find someone who can sex better than them once you get bored, or is that not the case?
that's all i'm trying to say..i'm not saying that sex is not good nor is it not the only way to please your lover...
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