:confused: I met "suzie" in Jr. High. We are in highschool now and have been going out on/off for about 4 years now. It's great, I mean she's a wonderful person and I love being with her. But things just aren't the ame as they were when we first started seeing eachother. We fight a lot more. Good times and feelings are less common than bad feelings and and the whole "not talking" game. It's like there's always something to argue about. And it takes a healthy toll out of both our lives. I guess the question I am asking is...is it worth it? I mean of course I'd love for things to work and things to be like before, but things just don't seem heading that direction, so would it be better just do the whole "friends" thing and stay friends. Even she says it seems like we're forcing something to work that obviously won't sometimes. I really don't know what to do. Oh and here's the icing on the cake, homecoming at my school is in 2 weeks..."suzie" is my date. What do you think should happen? Please...i'm open to any advise you have to give. Thanks for listening. (reading) and have a nice day :)
Diavolo :cool:
I'v been in the same situation man. (Me and my gf been goin out for over 1yr 9months.) My advice, deal with it. What I'v notice is, if your debating back and forth THIS MUCH, then there still something there.
I tell ya, my girlfriend is an awsome girl, I'm a lucky guy, but oviously, she gets on my nerves sometimes...sometimes a little...sometimes alot. We always end up by each other though.
Love is an untouchable force my friend.
Good luck! And catch me on msn if you need anything bud!
Hi, what you need to do is talk about it with her. Tell her everything you just wrote in here. Dont keep everything inside. But make sure when you talk to her its not over the phone. If in the end you two decide it would be easier to break up, tell her that if she wants to, you guys can still go to homecoming together as friends. I dont knkow if that helps, but its just a little advice from a girl.
Have hot, spell binding, heart burning, slobbery, sensational halbnero flavored pineapple pizza, then dump her! :p
But nah you should talk to her first tell her that this isn't working out. And you said she also feels the same way about it so then I'm sure she will understand, if she doesn't then do what I wrote on the first line.
"To many people spend money on things they don't need, to impress people they don't like, with money they don't have."
"When all else fails read the directions."
I think that if you guys feel something for each other, then there is still "something" there like WHAT said...also you should try to be just friends for a while and see if that will work out for you :O)
Well.. every relationship reaches a point when things arent great all the time and some of the other persons charm has worn off.. you have to decide whether you want to try and work at the relationship.. good outweigh bad? or move on and try with someone else... I don't know what exactly is going on.. but this is a very personal decision to make. Once you have you have to stick to that decision and talk to her rationaly about why you don't want to keep putting effort into the relationship.
However .. if you have already invited her to homecoming.. take her and keep things happy till after the dance... girls put alot of time and money into dress shopping, hair, nails, make up, ect.. that builds of lots of hopes.. make it at least a good note to end on.. ((not saying break up with her that night.. wait a few days at least ))
Haha nice edit lol
"To many people spend money on things they don't need, to impress people they don't like, with money they don't have."
"When all else fails read the directions."
There ya are Loveable! :D
Thanks everybody. Your advice is very well appreciated.
Diavolo :cool:
give us an update, hows it going?
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