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Thanks for your reply. Yeah, we have to brave, I guess I am just scare what might happen, and confuse of what I think and feel because haven't actually thought about boys for a long time now. I am glad to have found this site to express this because I can never say anything about this to the people around me, especially when they ask who I like and I say nobody because I rather focus on studies, and they never know because I am good at hiding how I feel. I hope to become friends with the people I notice, but not as a girl/boyfriend thing....at least not in high school and college.....but i hope to also find someone one day that truly likes me for who I am and a understanding person.
I feel a little embarrass posting this but oh well, just hope no one who knows me will read it, lol.

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You know what, I was gonna butt in here, but I'm not going to. I think that you guys are going to get to college and you're going to work hard and that's where you're going to really shine. College is very different from high school and I think that when you guys get there you'll be fine. Just try to make friends with people in your classes and people in your major and there are like hundreds of groups on any major college campus that you can join. But it is important to be more comfortable talking with people both intimately - as friends or boyfriends - as well as formally - as with interviews and meetings with professors. Just know that there are plenty of options out there and that once you actually get into colleges (you guys are probably going to go to awesome colleges) you'll see that there are thousands of people like you and you'll have a great time and make lots of friends. You just have to put yourself out there a little bit at a time as you get comfortable with it.

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wow sakura i haven't met any one so like me. Kinda ironic. Piono girl is right!

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Lol, same here, I agree, pianogirl is right (thank you piano girl for what you wrote), I feel like I can't wait until college and graduate from high school! It is ironic, I always thought there are 2 person in the world that are a like, never thought to have found one here.

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Glad I'm not the only dork (not my term) who's never had a boyfriend.

I'm rather outgoing though...I think I scare them off ;)

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usually friends and boyfriends come at unexpected times like right now i have homecoming coming up and i have absolutely have no one to go with and i get to spend 15 hours decorating and paying 25 bux for that crappy night that i am going to have without anyone but the thing is to cheer up and remind yourselve not to think about boys or friends and focus on what is given. Nice to meet you Sakura and yeah Hecate i guess we are dorks, too! = ]

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yeah, nice to meet you both too. Lol, yeah......my best friend call me a geek so already know that, lol, You know my best way to avoid thinking about boys or saying yes when being asked? I stick with my sister, lol, that really helps, especailly whenever we can be serious, little mean, and strick to the guy friends of each other side. One time I met my sister's guy friend and I made him nervous and possible a little scare when talking to him about NO DATING rules and BO BOYFRIEND rules about my sisters and me, lol, that was funny, his response I mean. Anyways, like piangirl said, we will definitely shine and one day I think we will definitely find a guy for ourself and have a happier life.
*hope that this doesn't sound too.....em....bad.....or off topic....oh well.....*

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Yeah...well, it's an old topic. A little off topicness won't hurt it.

And FYI I did have one bf my senior year in high school, and a date with another guy, both went, well, they didn't last very long. The other one (^ this one) lasted for like two days - that was kinda sad. But I knew that one was doomed all along...

And yet through random events, I now have a bf, it's a long distance relationship (opposite sides of the country...it sucks sometimes, but I do love him), and it just kinda...happened. We weren't really looking for it to happen we just happened to be helping a friend and, well, we found we had a lot in common. So you just never know when these things are going to happen. And remember - you can always go to things in groups of girls, you don't always need a date. (or boys if you're a boy)

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You are lucky becaus i do not have a sister and i kind of wish i did. The thing is most of the time when you act desperate to have a relationship and you get into it you realize how much you don't want it and how weird it is. Otherwise thanks Sakura and Pianogirl. Sakura, are you from Japan?

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TaNaTy_AnDraMeDA wrote:You are lucky becaus i do not have a sister and i kind of wish i did. The thing is most of the time when you act desperate to have a relationship and you get into it you realize how much you don't want it and how weird it is. Otherwise thanks Sakura and Pianogirl. Sakura, are you from Japan?

Lol , I know that feeling, I do that at times and imagining how it would feel like and I always ask myself do I really want that???? Then of course (in my head) I think NO!!! Lol. so weird we both are kind of thinking of same things...
To tell you the truth, I am actually a Chinese-Malaysian, but was born in Vienna (Austria) who move a lot to countries and places. so I am not from Japan, dream of going there one day though. I came from Malaysia to USA 3 years ago. My real name is Esther, you can call me that if you want but usually online all my friends call me as Sakura, have used that nickname for 7 or more years now, I know some Japanese from watching J anime and sometimes can understand parts of it without subtitles. But mainly I speak 3 forms of Chinese, English, and know little Malay but don't know if I am as good as i use to be. Lol, my nickname Sakura must have made everyone thinking I am Japanese, lol, maybe I should stick with that, hahaha, just joking. Oops, I put in more than what you ask for and got off topic, sorry.

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