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Need a girls perspective...

Or a really smart dude.
Alright, just to be 100% sure, what exactly does it mean if a girl stares at you all the time..
Cuz no joke, like in all of my classes theres always like one girl whose always like staring at me and stuff..
and see im asking this cuz im a "stupid" dude, lol :D

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well generally if your not drawing any attention to yourself by telling a story a joke or just making an ass out of yourself- if she is looking at you and you catch her mid eye contact, and she smiles back at you or looks away quickly, ect... than shes probably into you.
But thats just my opinion (to be fair however this is coming from a girl whos best friends are mostly guys, so i kinda have a slightly guy oriented brain but im still very much girl so..) and your not a stupid dude, girls are just a clueless to the ways guys show they like us.

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I pretty much agree with laVieBoheme. Though she might just be staring into space, or she's not even looking at you (I know some people who you think they're looking at you, but they're not) But if she's looking at you all the time, which it sounds like she is, and she's acting like what laVie said, then she probably likes you.

By the way, you're not stupid. Girls are just complicated. And they're just as confused as you are...most anyway.

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well..its actually not one girl, its more like a whole lot actually lol...
okay maybe not a [I]whole[I] lot, but like 5 or something..
That might sound kinda bad on my part but i dont mean to, im not exaggerating or anything.
but yeah, theres a few classes i have and it seems like theres a girl in each of them who is always staring at me..(all different people) and its pretty consistent..most of these girls are all pretty hot but even so, im bad at making stuff off the top of my head to talk about..so its a bit of a dead end..
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Haha, oh. I wasn't sure there.
Well, it's possible that somehow you're drawing attention to yourself.
It could be just that they all like you...yes, that does happen. But if you really want to find out, ask one of your friends who are girls to find out.
And again, just go up and talk to them. School is really common and, for a lack of a better word, neutral in the sense of talking to other people. Both of you will have something to say about it. Something like "I can't believe teacher X assigned a,b, and c to do for homework. it's so much..." or whatever and go off from there. Or if you know her better than that, "hey, how was your weekend?"
But honestly, school is a good one to talk about. You're not alone in the whole, trying to think up something to say sort of position.
(btw, why would it matter if they're "pretty hot?")

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hmm..well i doubt im drawing attention to myself..haha, i mean im usually not doing anything that would be considered "outlandish" i guess..and yeah, your conversation topics arent bad, but most of these girls sit too far for me to say anything anyway..
(oh, and it matters cuz, the hotter a girl is, the harder it is for me to think of anything to say..im not like retarded, (for lack of a better word), but unless the circumstances are in my favor im a fair bit powerless. and it also mattered because everyone loves a detailed story right? details are fun, they paint pictures, and i guess id rather paint a portrait than draw a crude picture. lol!! but just so you know, i wasnt saying it to be a braggart or sound cool, haha) =P

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...I guess that makes it tough. There's always before and after class...just pass by or something-if you want to talk to them, that is. Or if you really want to look into it, just ask one of your friends who are girls. If it's multiple ones, then you'll have at least one who told her friend.

As for conversations, online is a good way to make better friends. (ie facebook her a homework question, or make an AIM chat with your friend, and her..with your friend also being her friend)

(I see your point, and details are good, but "hot" isn't really a detail in my opinion. Ish...it's my feminism background talking. I didn't take it as sounding snobbish. I realize this doesn't make a whole lot of sense...I can explain further if needed :)

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hmm...yeah i guess thats an idea.

oh, and what do you mean feminism background? did you grow up with a single parent or something?

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I guess I'm not much help, lol...

I grew up around feminists, that's all. And I take back what I said-I apologize. It's my sidenote critique of culture, that's all. :) Sorry for the confusion

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oh, no dont worry, your helpful!
its okay though, you dont have to worry about anything.
do you have feminist family or something? im just a bit curious to know..

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Thanks :) though I doubt it

Umm, no, not really, my family isn't feminist-they're not like misogynist or anything. Both genders are equal to them...but I digress. I meant that, I've grown up with friends who believe (some very strongly) in feminism and that both genders aren't equal yet. Also teachers, and the fact that I know many more girls than guys. So I kind of have these ideas and mindsets that are pro-feminist if you will. And I guess that when you've grown up in the environment that I have, it's a little more feminist than the average person simply because of who I know. If that doesn't make any sense, lol, I can probably explain it a bit better some other time.

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