i've got a question that maybe someone can help me with. alright, a girl wasn't necessarily "leading me on", but she began to stand out to me more than before:rolleyes:. so then i came up with this idea of asking her out on Valentine's Day. i had 3 people making deliveries for me throughout the day, and the last person would deliver a card with my name in it and maybe asking her to meet me somewhere that night....so i asked her best friend to help me out....she told me i wuz wasting my time.....i said f***:mad: it and tried to move on.....now it turns out that the girl i like likes some other guy who treats her like crap. it gets better. she KNOWS he treats her like crap, yet she still can't get over him....soooo i'm thinking about sticking with the original plan, but instead of asking her out i'll just tell her how she deserves better.....so someone tell me: am i still wasting my time?:(
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Hey there, Im sorry to break the news to you - but, sir, you are indeed wasting your time. Once a girl acknowledges that she likes someone and that someone is mistreating her - and she further acknowledges that. Then I suggest you do something much more fulfilling with your time - like asking out someone whom doesn't have such a predicament upon her hands. Perhaps she is a masochist whom takes pleasure in the pain that she is dealt, for there are girls that like that kind of thing. I duly apologize for any disillusionment that Ive provided - but I wish you the best of luck prying yourself away from such prospects. I project that if one gets involved in a situation like that - I would imagine that It'll only get worse.
I bid you adeiu.
- ictinus101
*sigh*...i guess ur right...
dont get too down perry, ictinus, you sound a little cynical.
however, this situation might not be in your favor perry. this is risky as hell. and i got turned down on valentines day once, and i'll tell ya right now. it will be a lot more hurtful than being turned down on a day thats not valentines day.
so really, you need to evaluate it, and make this decision yourself. if this girl means that much to you, then do what you feel you must do. if you choose to go the other direction, that might be the easier route, but also unfulfilling. because we all hate uncertainty and not knowing.
basically, you really need to know, what matters the most. thats how you decide.
Straight Edge --
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I guess it depends on how well you know this girl. If she knows this person treats her badly but still likes him anyway, she may be in denial or likes him regardless of that. either way, it'll be hard to get her to not like him. If you know her well enough, tell her you're worried about her relationship with the other person. And by being with her, you'll get to know each other better. I don't know that it's the right time to ask her. And to be honest, if she never comes around to realize that you'd treat her better than the other guy (or whatever the situation is), then maybe she's not worth your time. I don't know you or her, but it sounds like you both deserve better. :)
...in riding a horse we borrow freedom...
hey listen,
dont give up. stay close to her. be friends for a while. if she wants to talk to you, she will. trust me man, ive been in the exact situation before and it wasnt pretty. I always stayed around her (not in a creepy kinda way...) and was just friends for over 2 months. Now, i don't know how bad the situation is in your case but w/ me she eventually she called me she was bawlin her eyes out and pretty much said she couldnt take it any more. i explained to her that she shouldnt have had to deal w/ it in the first place. i didnt tell her how i felt just then but i did let her kno that she can talk to me on any issue and id be willing to listen. a couple of weeks l8er i told her how i felt and we've been dating for almost a year strong now. keep your head up man
if u got any ?'s let me know
bill