So yeah i have had a date of any sort, date date or casual friend date, in ablut 3 or four years. i know im a teenager and thats not bad, but there a guys a like.
then the guys that like me tend to be unsusually, like the kind that need to be commited. like my freshman year there was this guy that i had never met, saw on occasion in the hallway, but diddn't even know his name. then he sent me a note saying that he really liked me, and he seemed like he knew me , but the kinda scary thing is that i didnt know him at all. didnt have any classes with him at all. and if he really like me that much, you think the guy would spell my name right.
so jr high is the only time i have had a bf. once in 7th grade with a guy that had yet to "come out" (eberyone knew he was gay but me) and a guy that was three years older than me in 8th grade, that i didnt want to go out with to begin with and only did because hi cousin who was a friend of mone begged me to. then he dumped me after the show we did for another girl in the cast that he used to date because after hin , the other girl, myself, and someone else hung out for awhile, he discovered he still had feelings for her. it didnt bother me to break up since i didnt want to date him from the get go.
but now i am a junior in high school, and only went to one dance with a friend and we were bored out of our minds. its not that i want a boyfriend, i would just like for someone to like me that isn't a certafiable loon, or is going to be in need of a restraing order.
how do i get a guy to fall for me, and mean me, not someone that im pretending to be just to get guys?
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you can't get someone to fall for you. if you are trying to get guys you are by definition not being who you are. and if you are not trying to get guys then what was the point of this post? if you really want a boyfriend (or just someone to like you) just find someone you like and hang it with him. if it works out then lucky you, if not then oh well, that'll happen. either way, don't push yourself onto a guy because he will just think you are the crazy girl version of that guy you were just talking about.
to be completely honest, i think boyfriends or girlfriends in highschool are over-rated. i am willing to bet that anyone on this site is here because they ae using it as a resource for AP classes. i am also willing to bet that anyone taking AP classes is planning on going to college. the minute you go to college i seriously doubt that any relationships you had in highschool will be the same.
all in all, it's just another brick in the wall...
I took: AP US Hist, AP Stats, AP Chem
I am taking: AP Calc, AP English, AP Phsics
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hermione0457;79587 wrote:
then the guys that like me tend to be unsusually, like the kind that need to be commited. like my freshman year there was this guy that i had never met, saw on occasion in the hallway, but diddn't even know his name. then he sent me a note saying that he really liked me, and he seemed like he knew me , but the kinda scary thing is that i didnt know him at all. didnt have any classes with him at all. and if he really like me that much, you think the guy would spell my name right.
hahaha i want to meet this freshman boy and just...laugh at him hahahahha...
sorry...*still laughing
yeah he was a moron... and slightly creepy... kinda gave me the stalker-like vibe
which reminds me....
there is this one guy thats some old friends of mine and i have nick named stalker.... he is seriouly... odd
what he would do is if anyone and mean anyone of the female gender would speak to him.. they would instantly think that you were in love with him and he would never leave you alone... and in 8th grade.. he had a double crush on two of my friends, and we wnt to this science museume were they had this floor of a whole bunch of electronic stuff and they had a space set up where you could play a video game that is basically an Eye-toy. well they played the volleyball game and their team won and they broke a high score so the game had them take a picture...
here is the odd part... when they took the pic... he got behind both of them and stretched his arm behind them so it would like he had his arm wraped around them....
and then there is all the stupid stuff that kid has done (ugh)
lets see in 8th grade (he was in my class so i was like stuck with him for all of my core classes)
he... licked a rust bayonet (my history teacher was very hands on and he got a lot of history stuff of ebay and passed it around.) im seroius he LICKED it!!!
and he also drank a sciecne experiment.... we did something that the products resulted in a preciptate of some form and water.. and he asked that if nessary, would that water be safe to drink.. my teacher said yes and a split secind later he downed the whole thing.....
"Its the uhm.... its that one thing.... its the thing that did that one thing.... its the :p forget it"
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eh. sounds to me like the guy is just a normal guy. i don't know cuz i've never met the guy but i myself am definately guilty of drinking something because i got dared to do it. and the thing with the girls in the picture well...i think it's just funny. but like i said, i've never met the guy and he could be a total creepo.
all in all, it's just another brick in the wall...
I took: AP US Hist, AP Stats, AP Chem
I am taking: AP Calc, AP English, AP Phsics
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what I find truly overrated are the plethora of individualists who are above the 'petty' high school drama. I completely agree with you hermione that there is this need to have someone like you in high school because what right minded person wouldn't just love to bask in his/her own glory. haha
My advice is to take this quote into consideration;
"Its better to be a rose amongst roses than to be a rose amongst weeds"
Assuming that you are in the rose category (appearance wise that is), you would be better off associating/surrounding yourself with other roses. Don't fall for the seemingly more logical approach -- being the hottest amongst your group of less attractive friends. I know what I'm saying is highly superficial, but its true.
good luck with your boy hunting adventures :}
hey now...give credit to that plethora of individualists. they have to work extra hard to put on the apperence of not caring. i completely agree that it is great to have someone like you. my only point is that actually having a boy/girl friend is over rated. the other thing to keep in mind is that as a guy i would way rather have ten chicks at the same time than only one who i have to buy dinner for. i would guess that most guys are with me on that one but i could be wrong.
all in all, it's just another brick in the wall...
I took: AP US Hist, AP Stats, AP Chem
I am taking: AP Calc, AP English, AP Phsics
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hermione0457;79587 wrote:
then the guys that like me tend to be unsusually, like the kind that need to be commited. like my freshman year there was this guy that i had never met, saw on occasion in the hallway, but diddn't even know his name. then he sent me a note saying that he really liked me, and he seemed like he knew me , but the kinda scary thing is that i didnt know him at all. didnt have any classes with him at all. and if he really like me that much, you think the guy would spell my name right.
I sort of have the same problem. This really shy guy likes me and is really into me and pretty much wants me to be his gf (more just hanging out.) But I barely know him and he hasn't talked to me since homecoming in october. That is, until a few days ago at lunch. He asked me to "hang out/go out with him," but I was kinda hesistant, xD. I might tell him that we can be friends because I really don't like him more than that. Anyway, my friends were like "that's kinda creepy."
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thanks for the advice.. trust me i need it... its just that a lot of my class mates have been dating since 4th grade.. yeah kinda soon but hey its their life and their parents....not together just in general...
it gets to me at times...
so what girls hate the little sister treatment... when all of your guy friends wont look at you because they think of you as a sister.. nice to know with some guys.. insulting with others...
"Its the uhm.... its that one thing.... its the thing that did that one thing.... its the :p forget it"
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