Yea so im not having serious problems with a girl but im having a tough time seeing what i should do. Me and this girl have been hooking up for like 2-3 weeks I call her to hang out and I am always turned down but then on weekends all she wants to do is hangout at night she says she always busy during the weekdays she always has pretty good excuses and i talked to her friends they say shes busy but I am not so sure. She also like seriously hates touchy feel stuff like holding hands but she does it with me all the time when we hang out. I think this girl likes me but some of her friends say that she doesn't want a boyfriend but the way she acts when we do hang out makes me think she does. One time we were at a party and we were both pretty bad and i walked her home later and she asked me to come in and sleep over. I declined because i was sobering up and she wasn't and i don't think she was in her right mind so it didn't feel right, right then. This girl is by no means a slut either she never hooks up with anyone and a lot of guys like her so just to end some of ur thoughts. Her friends also told me she only hooks up with guys she really likes.
Does anybody have any advice on what to do to kinda take the relationship farther not necessarily be boyfriend and girlfriend or if this girl even seriously likes me
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June 9, 2008 - 23:10
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well, by the looks of it, whether she is sober or not, this girl really is showing signs of having some pretty good feelings for you. if you say that she only hooks up with guys that she likes then yes she does like you...especially if she loves to hold hands with you and such, she is giving you some hints that she feels really comfortable with you and approves of you a bit more than a close friend. ^_^
hope that helps and, since i am a girl, I'm just telling you what I think us girls would do.. ;] ...unless the girls are sluts, no girl in her right mind would just hold hands or hook up with any random guy especially if there are no feelings involved because as much as guys wish, not all girls need to be pampered and drooled over...they only want the guy that matters to care. am i making sense? if not, feel free to hit me up ok? :p
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i'm with drummer. but that doesn't really help you. instead of asking her friends what she wants you should just ask her because she will know what she wants more than her friends.
all in all, it's just another brick in the wall...
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why cant i be 21? but yeah things have changed a little i know shes likes me but she doesn't want to go out. I have talked to her about it and she said she just doesn't want to be labeled... I really like this girl like its weird to say but I'm like only really happy around her and its not that I'm sad or mad when I'm not around her like i can still laugh and stuff but I'm always so happy go lucky when I'm around her its weird. Does anybody have any suggestions on what to do about the relationship?
The big question is, is a non-labeled relationship possible? Does not being in a relationship label it?
If she is not interested in being labeled, I would not waste my time on her. She may be really cool, but any girl that likes you, loves to be called " blank 's girlfriend". I think she may be letting you down gently.
If I'm wrong, however, are you okay being with someone who doesn't want to be attached to you in any manner? I wouldn't be, but maybe you are. Or, you could try it for a while and she might come around and be cool with this 'labeling'.
So, you can move on, or try it out for a bit. If it doesn't work, you'll eventually be able to move on. Basically, decide how much you are willing to give to this girl, and if it is really worth giving it to her. Then, she if she can actually meet your needs in a non-labeled relationship.
I wish you luck, man, boys always have it so much harder than us girls in matter of approach.
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i'm a little unsure what she means by saying she doesn't want to be labled. if she is saying she doesn't want to be known as "so-and-so's girlfriend" then she needs to grow up because that will happen eventualy anyways.
really, there is nothing for you to do because you have already done what you can (based on what you have already said).
and i know what you mean by only being happy around her. it's not even that you are only happy when you are arounder her, it's just that you are more happy (if that makes sence). i had the same thing for a while but that feeling of happiness around her kinda left. maybe that's falling out of love (if someone can do that).
all in all, it's just another brick in the wall...
I took: AP US Hist, AP Stats, AP Chem
I am taking: AP Calc, AP English, AP Phsics
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yea and things get a little more complicated... shes going away for a month on a thing with other kids from different places and wants to i guess take a break during that time and see what happens when she comes back... I just feel like she doesn't like me as much as i like her shes younger than me and im not sure if she wants me to be able to do what i want or if she wants to just see what happens. im dying here
well, i hope things work out for you (i know they will because things always work out in the end)
all in all, it's just another brick in the wall...
I took: AP US Hist, AP Stats, AP Chem
I am taking: AP Calc, AP English, AP Phsics
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
I am sorry that this is happening, however, this girl does not seem to be very mature, yet. Perhaps it is better that you 'take a break' as she wishes. You are looking for a committed relationship, and she isn't, it appears.
The ultimate decision is up to you, do you want to cut your loses now, or take the gamble?
Greenlover17
Just Breathe...
A relationship is like a shark; it needs a constant current, or it stops living.
Curiouser and curiouser. ~ Alice, from Lewis Carroll's Alice's Adventures in Wonderland
Rainfall may make