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One thing led to the next

I was at a party at my friends house last weekend and we all got kinda buzzed. Then, me, another guy, and a girl that I really like got more than a little buzzed. This other guy is a friend of mine and he was kinda all over the girl. So, I got pissed becuase he knew I liked her and he was still going ahead with her (mind you he was pretty drunk). Long story short, they were given a condom and I got into a fight with this guy about letting him use it. We both got pretty messed up (he has a split lip and cut cheek and i have a black eye, a broken finger, and a huge raspberry on my chin). We havent talked since. Is this whole thing my fault? Should I have let it go even though she was really drunk? And should I be the first to make ammends to him?
I'm lost and I need help here.

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Joined: Sep 2005

Approach him and talk to him, but be sure to remind him that you all were pretty drunk. Yeah, you should apologize to him since it sounds like you started the fight, but remind him that you liked the girl and were worried about her that night.

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Joined: Jun 2007

I'm sorry about what happened pmac13, but i agree with xena that you guys should sit down and talk it out...i can't really say that it was your fault since you all were really drunk, but i can can say that drinking too much leads to trouble...
if you can, pull him aside and have a one-on-one, after all, you guys were friends, right? you shouldn't let a friendship pass you by because of a crush, you get what i mean right?

I hope you the best...and good luck...if you want to talk more..just hit me up..whether here or privately, ok? pm or email me...my email is [email protected]" class="bb-email">[email protected]

Best wishes to you, pmac! and by the way, your signature poem, if i may call it that...it's really sentimental and true!! teehee...if only my friends were that thoughtful..no drama should have to come out of a friendship...

once again, good luck!

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Joined: Nov 2007

it all really depends on the guy who gave them the condom is a friend of yours or not, Quote (they were given a condom and I got into a fight with this guy about letting him use it.) or if hes a friend of your friend who was all over the girl you like.....does this make any sense??? :p

Eagle of Justice's picture
Joined: Dec 2007

sounds like you got KNOCKED THE FUCK OUT

Patriotic Firefighter's picture
Joined: Dec 2007

She has multiple holes.

Can't you all just get along?

MRHSgirl's picture
Joined: Dec 2007

I am so sorry that this happened to you! i know what it's like to lose a good friend too.

Well, i can't say that i have been drunk, but i know that when you do get wasted that your true self tends to come out. (or so i have heard) maybe that is what he really wanted to do. You will never know unless you talk to him...and do it in person! And for the girl, she must have wanted it to unless she wouldn't have done it. just think about it

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Joined: Jan 2005

Just talk it out. Seriously. Its only going to get worse if you dont.

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Joined: Dec 2007

Just tell him u were both drunk and it wouldntve happened if u were both in ur right mind...then scare the crap out of him and apologize first...:P

flagstones925's picture
Joined: Apr 2005

You prevented him from committing rape, because it sounds like she was too drunk to consent. Good for you!

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Joined: Dec 2007

flagstones925;67867 wrote:You prevented him from committing rape, because it sounds like she was too drunk to consent. Good for you!

I agree. You definitely stopped something terrible from happening. Unfortunately, in doing so, you caused another issue =/

I also think the only way to resolve this mess is to talk to the other guy. You won't fix anything if you don't take (peaceful!) action.

I hope everything works out with you =)

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